So, let’s talk about the elephant in the room - my beard. It seems like every time I catch up with friends and acquaintances lately, the first topic of discussion isn’t about how I’m doing or what’s new in my life. Nope, it’s all about the facial hair.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind a compliment or a curious inquiry now and then. But when it becomes the sole focus of our conversation, it’s a bit, well, shallow. I mean, come on, there’s more to me than just the fuzz on my face.
What’s even more frustrating is when these conversations happen with friends who have settled in first-world countries like the US. You’d think living in a progressive society would broaden one’s perspective, right? Wrong. Some of them still cling to these backward notions that prioritize appearance over substance.
And then there was this recent two-minute interaction with a friend I hadn’t seen in 20 years. You’d think we’d have a lot to catch up on after two decades, right? Well, not quite. The first thing out of their mouth? “What happened to your hair and beard?” And just like that, I found myself giving an explanation as if I owed one. (Face palming)
To my friends across the pond, I say this: Let’s step up our game. There’s a whole world of meaningful conversations out there waiting to be had. Let’s move beyond the superficial and engage in dialogues that actually matter. Whether it’s discussing our dreams, aspirations, or the state of the world, let’s aim for depth over shallowness.
So, next time we catch up, how about we skip the beard talk and dive into something more meaningful? Trust me, we’ll both be better off for it.
